This may not have been what people expected. I feel that I did begin as a youth WGA assistant and people did open all kinds of doors to places and experiences… not connections for me back then. Because of the unique experiences and people I got to meet while young, I became unique myself and lead for a variety of “happenings”. Often though, I may have been more of a follower and someone just evolving than people realize. Sometimes it looked like I was the bold one who simply “went first” into things. I may have spoken first. I may have experienced something first. And that was how I lead others. I engaged the experiences first and then if there were followers… they saw how I did it and either tried the same or tried something different. That’s why I can safely say, I was not certain when I had the lead… I may have been following someone else myself or doing what others’ wished. The analogy is like bicyclists or cars on a long tour, and some freely took the lead and also gave it to someone else for a time along the way…sometimes the leading was significant, sometimes meaningless. Some people like bringing up the rear of the pack! Some are even LAZY and rather someone else do the hard focusing of studying the upcoming terrain.
I’ve heard the word “anarchy” applied to life in the United States of America. I tried to ARGUE about this a long time ago. However, now that I’ve lived enough and seen enough I know what the problem is. HUMAN TRAFFICKING actually has broken so many rules and laws within this nation to “solve people problems” it HONESTLY DOES LOOK LIKE ANARCHY. Which means “leaders” are not what they normally are anyway. People use them as they feel like, when they feel like it.
It may have been easier to allow me to lead on some things, maybe a lot of things a long time ago simply because others WANTED TO SEE WHAT I CAME UP WITH. Honestly. Adults watch to see how children do certain things… sometimes adults watch other adults come up with things also. It may not even be a laziness involved. Just a curiosity! Not all children want to try something out or be bold and take the first steps into something. I know I was daring and got used to it at times, and sometimes I was clearly tired and drugged and unaware of what was really going on.
THUS! The Baby may not know what is going on. Some people let babies just crawl and run around even laugh when they get into trouble which is BAD PARENTING, BAD LEADERSHIP, BAD PARTNERING.
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